A sinister new financial scam is targeting vulnerable individuals seeking friendship or love, known as "pig butchering" or "sha zhu pan" in China. Literally, it means fattening up the pig for slaughter. This elaborate scheme involves cyber criminals investing significant time to build trust before ultimately stealing money.
Pig butchering requires a long term investment of cyber criminals time before they reap their financial rewards. They spend time building trust and rapport to develop a relationship, often a romantic relationship with their victim. They then start suggesting that they invest in fantastic financial schemes such as cryptocurrency, the share market, gold or foreign currency exchange.
The metaphor is particularly chilling because it describes a deliberately slow, calculated process of emotional and financial exploitation. It’s not a quick theft, but a methodical “fattening up” of the victim before the final financial “slaughter.”
This scam operates through a carefully orchestrated process:
Key scammer tactics:
- Crafting an irresistible online persona, typically an attractive, successful professional
- Creating elaborate backstories that elicit sympathy and trust
- Developing an intense emotional connection over weeks or months
- Strategically introducing "investment opportunities" that seem too good to refuse
The scammers’ playbook is devastatingly effective. The four steps they tend to follow are: packaging, raising, killing (scam), cashing out. They begin by building an intricate digital identity (packaging), carefully selecting details that make their fictional character appear genuine and desirable.

A typical profile might include:
- A successful business owner
- Someone from an attractive, cosmopolitan background
- A person with seemingly limited time but intense emotional availability
- A narrative that includes personal tragedies to generate sympathy
As the relationship develops, the scammer becomes increasingly manipulative. They’ll message victims constantly, use endearing terms like “baby” or “sweetheart,” and weave a complex narrative of potential future romance. The goal is to create a sense of emotional dependency and trust (raising).
The financial trap springs when the scammer introduces investment opportunities (killing). They showcase a seemingly luxurious lifestyle and direct victims to elaborate fake investment platforms. Cryptocurrency has become the perfect vehicle for fraud, with transactions irreversible and difficult to trace (cashing out). Victims are presented with convincing investment statements showing remarkable returns, which encourages them to invest more money.
Red flags to watch for:
- Rapid communication shifts to platforms like WhatsApp
- Excessive emotional love bombing
- Constant talk of financial opportunities
- Avoiding real-world meetings
- Pressuring for personal or intimate photos
Conclusion
This scam thrives in the digital world, exploiting post-pandemic social isolation and people’s growing comfort with online relationships. The psychological manipulation is so subtle that anyone can fall victim.
Protecting yourself requires constant vigilance. Be sceptical of online connections that seem too perfect, avoid sharing personal financial information, and trust your instincts. If you suspect you’re being targeted, report the interaction to the Australian Cyber Security Hotline on 1300CYBER1 hotline, or contact authorities if you feel threatened.
In the end, this is a predatory game that transforms human connection into a calculated financial assault. Knowledge, scepticism, and awareness are your most powerful defences against these digital predators.